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Friday, July 1, 2011

Justifying Infidelity



People involved in infidelity are usually carried by extreme emotions, so extreme that they will go to any lengths just to have the chance of experiencing them continuously. Any person who has the sense to speak against it is automatically tagged an enemy. Cheaters will lie to others even up to the point where they actually convince themselves that the lie is the truth.

Determined cheaters will go through the motions of repairing the marriage such as going to counseling. With the task of external performance of efforts to fix the marriage achieved, they will cite the "failure" of counseling to justify an extra-marital affair. At the pretense of doing everything to save the marriage, a cheater with this kind of thinking goes into the "solution" with his/her mind set on continuing the affair.

Cheaters often claim that their respective spouses fail to fulfill a certain need they have in the marriage. A marriage blossoms with love, communication, intimacy and companionship. When one spouse is not able to provide any of these needs, it should not be used as an excuse to cheat by the other. This seeming lack of something within the marriage should encourage both to look into ways of fulfilling what is wanting. Most of the time, the "neglectful" spouse would require some realization of his/her negligence through the help of the wanting spouse. Together they can work things out for the better.

In the event that all efforts prove to be in vain, couples should eventually decide on what they will do with their marriage. Although not a favorable option, divorce or separation is still a more honorable option than deception and infidelity. Before deciding however on matters that would result to the end of a relationship, couples should consider looking for justifications to stay in the marriage especially if the positive points outweigh the negative. After all has been said and done, people who are truly unhappy in their marriage can never be fully justified in choosing to cheat.

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