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Thursday, June 7, 2012

Mixed Infidelity News from All Over the World


In any human relationship, and particularly in a marriage, it is essential that both parties agree about what they consider as marital infidelity and cheating. This way, both spouses can understand what acceptable behavior is and what is not. Do you remember Bill Clinton story – he did not cheat on his wife, he just did not consider that stupid blowjob as sexual act and believes it like a game, not a cheating.

Better understand it you can with the mixed media news, related to the relationships in marriage. These stories became public information after different actions, but all of them are related.



This is from Alex McCord, author, mom, tv personality:

How low would you go to catch yourhusband cheating? I'm flying without a net here, because it never occurred to me to try. My jaw was on the floor when we saw this week's story on Coffee Shop Confessions.

The mom this week was so sure that her husband still carried a torch for his ex-girlfriend that she faked a Facebook profile and sent him dirty messages. When I tweeted my shock, someone wrote back that Facebook is now implicated in 40% of divorce cases. 40%? I couldn't believe it and turned to my good friend Google to check it out. The numbers vary, but there are plenty of articles out there claiming social media as a factor in a third of all cases, 40%, 50%, etc.

Apparently our desire to share the ridiculous minutiae of our lives is so intense it supersedes propriety. Of course I wouldn't know anything about that, having willingly starred on a reality show for years! Wherever the information comes from, social media creates a fertile field of opportunity for divorce and custody lawyers.

What kills me about this week's episode is this -- the wife chose a real human being. She didn't lift a picture of a swimsuit model and make up an alter ego. She started a profile for a genuine person from her husband's past. How is she going to get away with this? What's the woman going to do when she finds out? What will the husband do if he finds out first? What would you do?

In this paragraph we will tell you why some people believe that Australian law is bad:

An Indian-born man who slit his wife's throat with a box cutter has been jailed for at least six years, leading her sister to say Australian law is "very bad".

The couple married in India in September 2008, before Ms Kaur moved to Sydney on a student visa in January 2009 and her husband joined her on a dependent spouse visa in May that year.
Singh told the jury he lost control of his body and mind after his wife said she had never loved him and loved another man, and after her brother made offensive comments about his mother on the phone.

They argued over money, Singh suspected his wife was cheating on him and there were episodes of domestic violence. Singh told the jury his wife threatened to kick him out of the house and the country.

The judge set a maximum sentence of eight years. Wife sister later told reporters, "Very bad law in Australia, very bad". She said her brother-in-law had lied when he told the jury her sister was having an affair. Her sister's mobile phone was checked for calls involving her alleged lover but police found nothing.

"They believed it, (but) they did not have any proof, they didn't show anything in the court, they don't know who the guy is," she said.

CheatingWivesDating.net Offers Resources for Men Seeking Married Women Who Want to Have Affairs. At the same time some of them could found their own wives there.

Infidelity has been around since ancient times, but with online personals and dating websites, cheating on a spouse has never been easier than it is today. Being unfaithful is not an easy decision, but if a wife feels that her needs are not being met, the Internet can provide her with a variety of options.

Lately, a website called CheatingWivesDating.net has been generating a lot of attention thanks to its service that helps every visitor to connect with a woman looking for an affair.

“To be brutally honest — married ladies become bored too quickly. Those nice women want only one simple factor — a man for a romance relationship with no strings attached. Your love affair should be kept a mystery by both of you, and you both should be sure there are no strings attached. The factor you should be sure about is that your dates are extremely discreet and that it’s absolutely nothing serious,” the website explains.

This discreet dating is becoming more and more common, and there are now many ways to find dates even if you are married. The website declares, “The primary advantage of the Internet is that it’s a very discreet way for discovering a man. You all recognize that there are plenty of websites where you would be able to discover a date. As the Internet advances, the number of websites of this sort rises. In case you’re a married woman seeking a date, the fastest way to discover one is on the Web.”

As a result, CheatingWivesDating.net offers many different resources that allow men to find cheating spouse for romantic rendezvous. Men will find information categorized by state and city, ensuring that they can find local women who are interested in having affairs. The list of cities featured on the website is vast, with smaller cities being included as well. This means that, no matter where they live, unfaithful spouses will be able to find a partner to cheat with.

In addition to specific local details about cheating wives, men will also find general information on why women cheat and how to date a cheating wife.