Spousal cheating is always at first glance a horribly devastating experience. There can be no positive aspect to speak of when it comes to violating the trust given by a spouse. Survivors of infidelity however, can attest to the fact that a silver lining may hide from such an unexpected source as cheating in the form of a stronger relationship if it manages to survive the disturbance.
Most people tend to go through life ignoring the subtle signs of marriage trouble in the hope that they will eventually go away. While some signs do go away because they were actually false alarms, others won't because they're real. Soon, they will be more noticeable and can be connected with one another until the doubting spouse has no choice but to acknowledge them and take action.
Infidelity does not simply disappear when ignored. In fact, it tends to progress as it is allowed to go through its natural course without interference, either because the cheating spouse believes that he can get away with it or the other spouse allows it to happen. Spousal cheating is something that has to be talked about in the open between spouses. Before any solution is possible, the problem and its causes have to be identified. Anything short of this would result to half-baked remedies that do not stand a chance against the pressure of infidelity.
In acknowledging the problem of spousal cheating, not all marriages are able to survive. Given this truth, the marriage is still given a fighting chance to prevail rather than deteriorate in neglect and indifference. Spouses are not only expected to provide support during good times but especially so when challenges are there to overcome.
Couples who envision a lifetime together can treat infidelity as a mistake that can be forgiven to make possible the beginning of the journey towards a stronger marriage. Even when it feels like the end of the world for the faithful spouse, second chances can make the difference.
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