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Tuesday, March 8, 2011

The New Company Behind CheckMate

Bensalem, Pennsylvania Medimpex United Inc, through its affiliate CheckMate Test LLC is now the new owner of CheckMate Infidelity Test Kit.

One company can now finally claim that it can offer the complete range of home-testing kits including pregnancy tests, ovulation tests, drug and alcohol tests, glucose tests and now the controversial semen detection test.  Medimpex is a long-time manufacturer and distributor of various rapid testing kits as well as other diagnostic devices.  These tests and devices are within reach of ordinary consumers in terms of cost and availability.  With detailed information provided for each product, answers are literally placed at the hands of those who require it.

Tapping CheckMate Test LLC to take charge of ensuring the continued success of CheckMate as an acknowledged leader in the semen detection industry, Medimpex once again takes one step forward in its commitment to provide reliable and accessible testing kits to the market.  The company’s client reach extends to North and South America, Europe, Asia and Australia.  All shipments are made from its state-of-the-art warehouse.  All the offered products are characterized by ease of use, quality, competitive price and time effectiveness.  The company has also opened up business opportunities for distributors and resellers through its wholesale facility of home testing kits.

A home test is defined as a diagnostic evaluation, intended to be self-administered with the use of a simple kit or over-the-counter tests readily available in pharmacies and other selling outlets.  Several semen detection products are currently available in the market but generally fall under three main categories: tests to detect prostrate specific antigen, the detection of acid phosphate which is an enzyme primarily found in semen, and microscopic tests for the presence of semen. 

CheckMate makes use of the Acid Phosphate Test wherein the presence of semen is determined by the presence of an enzyme found in very high levels only in a man’s prostrate.  The validity of its results lies on the fact that no         semen or traces of it could find its way to the personal garments of a person such as underwear without the occurrence of any sexual activity.  With a confirmed sexual activity outside the relationship, cheating spouses can finally be nailed down with real proof. 

History would tell us that the idea of detecting semen in relation to infidelity is something that has been lurking in the minds of people since the 1800s.  However, it is only now that people are given the advantage of having easy-to-use semen detection tests conducted in the privacy of one’s home.  No one needs to know of the intention to do the testing so the guilty parties are not forewarned while the innocent ones are absolved of baseless suspicions without being knowingly subjected to testing.

Most cheating spouses will not be caught dead with their lies so it is quite critical to be able to counter lies with solid evidence.  Most cheaters need to be caught first before confessing.  The most hardened cheaters even have the gall to continuously deny even if caught red-handed.  Imagine confronting people like these with no evidence.  The most probable results would only be more confusion because of a cheating spouse’s opportunity to propagate more lies.  The cheating evidence is especially important when divorce is being considered.

A cheater lives a life of deception while the one being cheated on lives a life of misery and suspicions.  Every act becomes a motive and every word becomes a question in a relationship where trust has flown out of the window.  Cheaters can even turn the issue around by managing to skillfully pass on the blame to his/her unsuspecting spouse while enjoying his /her advantageous position.

For most people who have been involved in long term relationships, gut feel is something that cannot be denied.  This is when a partner knows something is going on without actually having any solid evidence to support such unspoken knowledge.  Even experts agree that gut instinct is one of the most, if not the most powerful indicator of infidelity.  Changes may be subtle and signs not so obvious but will soon be, as an illicit relationship progresses.

It is a fact that as a relationship develops into something deeper; partners tend to become more demanding of the attention and time of the other, sometimes actually thinking that they have the right to such demands.  This is the time where slip-ups appear as unfaithful partners get caught up in their own lies.  The natural tendency of people is to trust their respective partners but if a doubt never seems to go away due to seen or unseen reasons, maybe it is time to investigate further.

Doubting spouses should learn to maximize their observation skills if they are to catch their cheating partners.  Although the issue of infidelity certainly creates chaos in the minds and emotions of those concerned, it is important to remain calm and composed to be able to gather evidence effectively.  When the initial shock subsides, people in the receiving end of infidelity should come to terms with the reality of the possibility and do something about it by investigating.

As friends and work are the most common alibi used by cheaters, the spouse doing the investigating should try to extract information from these friends without them noticing.  It is a way of counterchecking reasons given for a spouse’s late night out, overtime work or extended business trips.  Mutual friends are typically not very happy about the unfaithfulness of one to his/her partner especially since both are considered friends.  Some may choose to give subtle hints so as not to be directly involved in the expected confrontation between the troubled spouses.

Relationships outside marriage may develop because of attachments formed in the work area or in other places where constant association with a particular person takes place.  Existing problems in the marriage can contribute a lot to losing control because of the simultaneous intense emotions going through a person related to disillusionment in an existing relationship and a strong sexual desire for another.  Most of the time, problems can make a person vulnerable to temptations which may ordinarily be overpowered during more stable times.  It should be noted that problems in marriage is not only about constant fights and scandalous scenes.  Some problems are characterized by a quiet feeling of unhappiness or even boredom.

The signs of cheating are always clearer looking back and never is while it is staring someone to his/her face.  Because of the expected trust that should come with a serious relationship, signs of cheating are rationalized and shrugged off.  Discovering the truth is something not everyone is ready for especially if the truth is about the unfaithfulness of a partner.  Many call it the denial stage where one protects blissful ambiance so as not to create a problem in the relationship, not realizing that such denial only serves to cover an already existing problem.  These people live in a dreamland where they hope that the problem will sort out itself and everything will be back to normal.  Unfortunately, this almost always do not happen since partners need to be proactive in their relationship and participate in its well-being.  This participation would include ensuring the faithfulness in the commitment and trying to work it out if infidelity has indeed been committed by one.

When infidelity has been confirmed, spouses have to make a decision individually if they would want to continue their marriage or go separate ways.  However, the work that comes after, either for rebuilding or separation needs their joint efforts.  Rebuilding a marriage after infidelity would require the commitment of both partners.  It would basically ask the guilty partner to cease from any further acts of infidelity while the offended partner needs to accept and understand the betrayal and bury the hatchet.  The failure of both to abide by these basic requirements can only lead to a cycle of blame, criticism and further lies.  Separation on the other hand, would require each of the partners to completely let go of the other to live a life of his/her own. 

There is life after a failed relationship.  Knowing what is happening behind one’s back provides the power to choose to live a lie or live a new life based on truth.  Products offered to catch cheating spouses are enjoying brisk business because people would want to have that power of possessing the truth.  No one should be helpless in this kind of situation.  Instant answers to questions of infidelity can be answered and the CheckMate product provides that commitment to its customers.

For complete information, visit www.CheckMateTest.com or direct inquiries to CheckMate Test LLC at info@checkmatetest.com

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