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Sunday, January 22, 2012

The Cheating Karma



Karma is a Sanskrit word which means action or deed. Most of us associate it with the cycle of cause and effect where we expect to get results based on what we do. In Hindu, God's involvement in the cycle of karma is attributed to his fairness in giving people exactly what they deserve. This means reaping the benefits of our good deeds or suffering through the consequences of the bad.

There are some people who believe that a person who is presently being wronged by a spouse through infidelity may have done the same act or acts in an earlier life. In essence, if a person cheats on his/her spouse today, he/she will me made to suffer the same fate in a future life when reincarnated. This view of course is very subjective since not all of us believe in past lives or future lives different from the life which we are living now.

In the Western world, the saying most often used that is closest to the principle of karma is "What goes around comes around". This is simply saying that what you do eventually comes back to you. The cheating karma can be considered poetic justice for the cheated ones as they get to exact revenge without lifting a finger, whether they like to or not.

Believers in the existence of bad karma say that the vicious cycle can be stopped by forgiveness. A cheated person who is presumed to have been the cheater in an earlier life can take the opportunity not to add any more bad feelings and actions that would allow the bad karma to fester. By being able to forgive and recommit to the relationship, the cheated person elevates himself/herself to a higher spiritual level.

People need not be believers in karma to realize that betrayal of spousal trust cannot produce positive results. Cheated spouses will lose faith in other people. Cheaters themselves will be unable to have peace of mind knowing that what they did can easily be done to them by their new lovers. Unless properly resolved, infidelity will have long-term effects.






4 comments:


  1. My Husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months, I was referred to a Private Investigator   and decided to give him a try.. the result was incredible because all my cheating husband's text messages, whatsapp, facebook and even phone conversations was linked directly to my cellphone. (worldcyberhackers@gmail.com ) Mr James helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence and gave it to my lawyer..if your husband is an expert at hiding his cheating adventures contact Mr James via Email


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  2. My Husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months, I was referred to a Private Investigator   and decided to give him a try.. the result was incredible because all my cheating husband's text messages, whatsapp, facebook and even phone conversations was linked directly to my cellphone. (worldcyberhackers@gmail.com ) Mr James helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence and gave it to my lawyer..if your husband is an expert at hiding his cheating adventures contact Mr James via Email


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  3. If you know you not ready for a relationship why get into one and still cheat and liar. I was dying inside for my cheating wife , i had no prove, no one to run to. Everyone thought i was paranoid. until i was referred to a Private Investigator  Mr James . I told him about my situation and He understood me well and helped me spy on my wife.He hacked my wifes Gmail and Facebook account and linked all her WhatsApp and phone conversation to me, to find out the truth.I saw all the evidence and i was heart Broken,I just want to openly say thank you to James for helping me get evidence against her,i feel so hurt. If you need help please contact him Mr James (Worldcyberhackers@gmail.com) via Email. 

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  4. My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in NewYork 2 months ago. He has been avoiding my calls and told me he is working,i got suspicious when i saw a comment of a woman on his Facebook Picture and the way he replied her. I asked my husband about it and he told me that she is co-worker in his organization,We had a big argument and he has not been picking my calls,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James(Worldcyberhackers@gmail.com) a Private Investigator  who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husbands Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husbands phone. where i found so many evidence and  proof in his Text messages, Emails and pictures that my husband has an affairs with another woman.i have sent all the evidence to our lawyer. I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof for my lawyer,I Feel so sad about infidelity.


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