It is always very interesting to see who the cheater will choose between the spouse and the lover when forced to do so. It is probably every cheater's dream to get away with his extramarital affairs so as to escape the necessity to choose. Most cheaters are perfectly content with maintaining the status quo, meaning having the security of marriage and the excitement of an affair at the same time.
Who could blame them for wanting to have such freedom and convenience at their hands? Imagine being able to hide behind the secrecy of an undiscovered affair - no hard decisions to make with an unknowing spouse and a cooperative lover. But what happens when the truth comes out as both spouse and lover demand that the cheater now make a choice between them?
A spouse who unconditionally allows a cheater to carry on an affair with another is a rare breed. The most typical scenario after discovery of infidelity is the issuance of an ultimatum by the aggrieved spouse to the cheating partner to terminate the affair immediately. On the other hand, the discovery can also encourage a lover to stake her claim by forcing the cheater to leave the legal spouse to be permanently with her.
A casual cheater who does not actually take his cheating ways very seriously may find himself in a tight bind having no intention from the very beginning of deserting his wife and family for another woman. He may be "forced" to choose the lover when he is given no other choice by the wife when she does the leaving. Cheaters who are under the illusion of being in love with the lover have the tendency to forget their marital vows and responsibilities. A mistake cannot be corrected by another mistake. If a cheater realize in the end that his love for the wife remains, he should have the humility to accept his mistake and work towards possible reconciliation with his wife instead of choosing the lover for lack of better options.
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