Checking Out That Mysterious Number

If your spouse's frequent phone use has recently become unsettling because the person on the other end of the line remains a mystery or a source of doubt, it is time to settle the issue once and for all . You could just be punishing yourself with an overactive imagination or you can be on to something important like marital infidelity. None the less, a spouse who appears less than straightforward when asked about the identity of his /her frequent phone conversation partner, should be the subject of a subtle preliminary investigation.

Subtlety is required especially when everything is just about suspicions with no hard evidence to support the accusations of cheating. The number one rule in confronting a possible cheating spouse is not to initiate any form of confrontation about the suspected cheating without any proof. The cheating spouse may see through the attempts of fishing for information thereby only exposing the doubtful spouse to more lies instead of the desired truth.

A mysterious phone caller who makes it a habit to hang up when you answer the phone but responds when your spouse gets to answer it is not merely a nuisance caller but possibly a lover of your spouse who becomes reckless enough to risk exposure rather than wait for you spouse's call or visit. This mystery caller can be unmasked through a simple process called the reverse phone look up. However, you as the doubting spouse have one and only one requirement to fulfill and that is to get the number of the caller or the person being called either through your landline or your spouse' s cell phone.

The reverse phone number look up service is offered by many online service providers. For a fee, you will be given a report containing anything and everything pertinent to the mysterious number or numbers which you hold in your hand. These service providers usually have complete information of all numbers registered in the US including cellular numbers, unlisted numbers and blocked numbers.

Once you have such the information you need, you can determine for yourself whether or not there is probable basis for your suspicions. Calls from the boss are frequently work related although a superior of the opposite sex calling in the middle of the night can still raise doubts. Further investigation may be required if doubts are not laid to rest with the identity of the caller.