A marriage of convenience is said to be an agreement between two people to be bounded in marriage for practical and financial reasons rather than the desire for intimacy and emotional support. Because of the seemingly "cold" conditions of the relationship presented from the very start, it could be very difficult to attain the level of intimacy that will develop trust between the couple. This is especially so when one party is "forced" to participate in the sexual aspect of the relationship merely as part of his/her own side of the agreement.
There are many men and women holding advantageous positions in society who will try to "buy" the affection of their objects of desire by providing that which is needed most by the other in exchange. There are also instances where the party in need initiates the proposal and is either accepted or rejected by the other. In situations such as this where the real reason for wanting to go into marriage is quite clear between the couple, is it realistic therefore to expect that the spouse who has no genuine interest on the other will eventually find himself/herself in the path of infidelity?
We have to remember that anyone who crosses the lines dictated by marriage in the aspect of fidelity is considered a cheat whether or not he/she has expressed love for the other. It is enough that he/she has agreed to be part of the marriage even if it is only done to fulfill a personal purpose. The other party who agrees to fulfill such a purpose naturally expects something in return for the favor. It is quite common for them to expect their spouses to be faithful at least during the tenure of the agreement, unless of course there has been an agreement arrived into otherwise.
There are known cases where partners to marriage for convenience allow each other a certain degree of freedom to maintain relationships with another man or woman subject to limitations. This agreement is usually known between the couple only and requires a substantial degree of restraint on both sides so as to avoid shaming the other in the public's eyes. A marriage of convenience tends to lay the foundation for infidelity since sexual desire and affection of at least one spouse is reserved for another.
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