Discovering spousal infidelity can come as a blessing in disguise especially for those who have been betrayed many times or for a considerable length of time. Most of the time, it would take a confirmation of cheating for long suffering spouses to take real action. In the lighter side, knowing makes it possible to have a new beginning.
Starting anew does not only mean leaving the relationship to pursue a life away from the cheating partner. It can also be about reassessing the marriage and understanding what led to the unfaithfulness. Starting from there, changes can be made by the couple to end extramarital affairs and concentrate on what can be done to save the marriage.
It does not stop on saving the marriage as in merely deciding to stick together. There must a conscious effort by the cheater to mend his/her ways and by the cheated in allowing trust to come back to the relationship. Couples who have gone through the difficulty of marital cheating and survived it come out wiser in knowing that infidelity is a real threat to marriage.
A cheated spouse who is able to free himself/herself from the bondage of doubt and betrayal is entitled to a new beginning. After going through the different phases of insecurity, hurt, anger, and despair, it is time to move on and discover what lies in store for one's self. Regardless of what decisions are made in the future, the cheated can take control of his/her own life with or without the cheating partner.
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