Infidelity Aftermath

What exactly happens between spouses after the initial discovery of infidelity? Will it be characterized by violent confrontation or quiet acceptance? The most common reaction of cheated spouses is somewhere in between or a combination of both as affected couples go through the different phases of recovery.

The initial stage is typically the most volatile where aggrieved spouses go through a roller-coaster of emotions ranging from anger to depression. Many cheated spouses cannot even bear to look at their cheating spouses without being engulfed by strong emotions that are very difficult to handle. Cheating spouses for their part may find themselves at a loss at how to conduct themselves, not being fully prepared for the mess they have created.

It is quite possible that cheaters do not realize the impact of their actions until they are seeing for themselves the effect marital infidelity has on their families. Before getting caught, they may be under the illusion that the thrill and excitement will have no end. Regrets never come before a mistake and when it comes, it is often too late to go back.

There are consequences to every action and decision people take. The aftermath of infidelity is one of the most difficult times for any committed relationship. During this time, many cheaters wish to undo what has been done which everyone knows is impossible. In the face of great temptation to cheat on one's spouse, it is always an effective wake-up call to imagine the probable consequences to determine if one can live with them.