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Monday, April 11, 2011

Marriage and Family Therapist and Psychotherapist Advice

Dr. Robert Huizenga, CSW, LMFT, is a Marriage and Family Therapist and Psychotherapist that specializes in the area of marital infidelity.

Items on his list that might be warning signs of a potentially cheating husband include:

  • He starts buying his own underwear.
  • He insists that the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
  • He has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

These may seem inconsequential at first sight, but in hindsight they can make a great deal of sense. It is often the little things that are the tell tell-tale signs of larger ones.

Doctor also mentions sex, even in this seemingly simple area, there are some warning signs:
  • Two key points however, are: (A)The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.(B)Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
  • He/she suddenly wants to try new love techniques, or sex suddenly becomes rougher.
  • He/she fairly suddenly has less interest in sex.
  • He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

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